Short phrases and posture cues for helping a child or teen feel less alone inside a hard moment.
Parents under pressure often reach for explanation before the child has enough steadiness to receive it.
Quick guide
How to use this
Tone, pace, and body language usually matter more than the perfect words.
Alpár Kertész
Clinical psychologist • Ericksonian hypnotherapist
Last reviewed: March 15, 2026
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